The Confusion

War is not the solution to any dispute.

Diplomats also say, “We don’t war.”

Then can anyone answer me to this simple question, “Why do WARS take place?”

Now let us evaluate this question and find a reasonable answer, if possible.

I feel that any kind of war happens, when one forcibly tries to prove the other wrong or his own argument correct. It is a state where further verbal dialogues are not possible.

 

But, some like fights; it’s their instinct, an instinct to bring a solution, favoring them, in their own ways. But, what happens when a country adapts such an instinct? Actually, it’s not the country; it’s their leaders who decide so. In the past, we have seen countries being ruined in war.

 

We are also in a state like war at present. The resent terror attacks in the country has raised several questions about the intelligence agencies, internal security, responsibility of our leaders, responsibility and the role of the accused and many more.

So what do you feel?

 

YES

I have come in contact with few who favor war. They have significant reasons for their conclusion. Around half a trillion rupees is the loss that the country made recently due to the attacks. We can just estimate these figures, cannot confirm the actuaal figures. Instead why not spent that money in dismantling those cross border terror camps under any circumstances? To tolerate evil is also a SIN. So why tolerate? Why not fight back and make them quiet? Quiet forever and such evil never rise again. We should fight for peace.

NO

War is not the solution to any dispute. War is the reason to another war in the future. So why war? There has to be another way out. Compromise. Compromise is a state where both sides let go a few things and come to a conclusion. Good for all. The after states of the war are not acceptable. The entire economy of the country may fall over. The development of any country gets halted. We offer peace and we will obtain peace some day.

 

The FACT

The fact is that our opinion has nothing to do with the reality. There are some criteria that matter the most. This includes our politics, our leaders, attitude of international community towards us and their politics, their leaders… and the foremost among all is the stance of the two countries under such circumstances.

Somewhere in my mind, a battle is being fought and I am not sure about any of the options. I don’t know what will happen? Whatever it may be, someday it has to come to an end. And the question “Why do WARS take place?” still remains a question. And nobody shall ever understand the reasons behind wars.

 

Be prepared for battle, if you want peace.

goshhh!! she is hot! 2 The Dark DESIRE

She is hot!!!

And I bet this time, she indeed is.

The desire to obtain her becomes unavoidable for him most of the times. His inclination towards her is a craze not explainable.

She can never be his and he knows that very well. Inspite that, he always flirts with her. He likes that excitement, though fatal.

He is cheating his spouse, family and even himself. And he knows that. But he is trapped. Trapped in obsession, addiction. Addiction of her.

He already has lost the battle. A battle fought within. A battle not to get addicted to her. And now he is a prisoner. Several times, he opens fire to fight, to fight against his own obsession. But he is defeated by none other then himself.

He will win this battle some day, maybe.

Or else he will die… fighting…

 

  

Someone has rightly said,

“Cigarette is something with flames on one side and a fool on the other.”

l i F e

LIFE!!!

yesss LIFE again.... lekin kya karu, LIFE itself inspires me a lot. so i would continue the same...

Present

Life is thrilling and exciting, it gives fun. its inspiring and desirable, as i already said in my past post. this is the best age where one can enjoy life. this period is also the beginning of married life. a year or two have passed. you are just settling/settled. its steady and easily going on. the most expected things/occasions come to you and you enjoy them. things like mid-night chats, small fights, caring, preparing breakfast for your spouse, etc. and occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, marriages, etc.

You are also matured enough to have a few good relations/understanding in friendship. but hey not everyone is lucky in this matter. well i am not talking about myself. many years have passed in friendship and you have already enjoyed many many on-the-spot movies, discussions at coffee cafe, late nights and above and over all, the fun of doing all such naughty thing together.

You have gained lots of skills in your day-to-day work which you do to earn a respectable living, but not experience. experience comes at the later stages of life, maybe.

Rewind

whats life??? is the biggest question for one who is in this stage.

Jivan ma have karvanu shu che?? 

you have completed/ended up your studies (almost) and that 'one thought' revolves in and around you. further studies?? job application?? family business?? own business?? what?? 

i mean,  what to do??? 

somehow you manage to continue your studies... very good. OR

you take a respectable job, thinking its good for experience... fine. OR

easy option-'family business', parents happy, you happy...nothing better. OR

self-motivated, you manage raising some capital, puja, mahurat, ice-creams, congrats...

after managing this, you move ahead in LIFE. your parents starts believing that you are big enough to take your own decisions. and then... the search begins... for bahu(spouse). either you are lucky enough to find a your match early, or the search continues... a time may come where you feel that you are the only eligible candidate 'single'. everyone else is getting married.

finally, you get the match for your life, whom you can annoy/be annoyed for the rest of your LIFE.

Further rewind

'ha ha ha' that's what you do all the time, you even like that. 

smiling, staying happy, knowing/learning new things from school, parents/relatives. you are lucky, if you are being brought-up in a joint family. you learn values of relations very early. 

to wake-up early in the morning for school is the laziest thing in the world. you enjoy schooling, come back home running, very happy. reasons- your teacher gave you a 'star'/'A grade' for your home-work. you are the happiest person. such small little things are BIG for you at that time and then in later stages of your life.

evening is play time. jumping, running, shouting and asking all the difficult questions of life to your parents/relatives. you get answers and the mysteries get solved... you get tired, are being fed and sleep-goodnight-sleep... simple.

gradually studying is made the sole motive of your life and you start preparing for your pre-high school and high school exams...

Future

Your kids are being settled/settling in THEIR LIFE. you are almost free from your day to day responsibilities. you start getting bored or start interfering in every other work which is not yours. later you realise the same.

you owe a farm house  some 30-40 kms away from city. now you have time to go there regularly and take healthy mornings walks with your spouse. you like inspect the garden and give instructions to gardener accordingly so that it looks picture perfect. days passes slowly and you enjoy all the things now as you have nothing but time. now you are officially a critic and you have the rights to analyze anything...

well, all the targets of life achieved and no further motive left other then to enjoy your relations with your family and friends...

Further future

death is just the beginning of a new LIFE... 

(im grateful to all my friends, their relatives and my relatives for being an example in different stages)

goshhh!! she is HOT!

she is hot!

she is beautiful. she is fantastic. dont know how, but she inspires me in all the ways she can. she makes me happy and gives me energy, energy to live, not just to live, but to live in a royal way, as one alway DESIRES.

at many occasions, inspite giving my best at the situation, she has let me down. but the best part is that she lifts me up when im about to loose hope. so she inspires...

i have felt the dreadful fear of death with her, which gives me a facinating feeling to enjoy her. its like a fun ride like a roller coaster, rather shaky. she gives fun...

she has given me many good relations, some good relatives, some really good friends and many memorable moments. so in all manner and all possible ways i would like to thank her, and thats my LIFE.

First Experience

it is always great to feel something for the first time. writing here is one of them. its for the first time and it feels great. though i would admit it is quite a tough job. to feel is great, but to explain that feeling is ?!?@!?@##. see cant even explain that... ;) well....well.... lets see what happens... i would attempt to share some of my feelings in coming days.

thats all for now.... see you soon.